Your ego mind to be exact. Here is something else you might not have realized. The you that thinks it’s you, is not really You! In all likelihood unless you are one of the few enlighten beings on the planet, the you, you think you are is really a fake role that you play called your ego.
God is the key. There is no getting around this fact. We cannot save ourselves. We cannot make our dreams come true or discover and successfully live our life purpose without God. Others talk about plans and strategies to live your dream as if it is an excel spreadsheet and all we have to do is form a grand plan and then implement it with discipline. But that’s all ego.